I think the age difference between 18 and 30 years old is completey wrong... She fell in love with the 21 year old, and he loves her but she doesnt want to give it a chance to let it work, instead she has this infatuation over this 30 year old guy who she calls her soul mate.
She basically had herself a great man in front of her and is willing to throw it all away.
I'm not saying that it's the case here (and I'm not dissing btown's friend, he sounds like an upstanding guy), but numbers don't always tell the full story. because now you've changed the scenario so that she's not a legal adult.
At 18 she's got rights that she doesn't have at 15, so how can you even compare the two?
21 year old guy taught her many things and developed something special in 6 months but one day she just wasnt interested anymore and called that something special with the 21 year old guy a mistake, because she claimed that the 30 year old is her first are your comments on this one? She is pretty mature for her age, but lacks maturity in dating.
Im trying to help my homeboy out right now.sorry for the loss for your friend, its better in the long run he seen her true colors, screw her I'd say... I feel for my boy, because he was a great guy, who was open, diverse, and taught her things nobody else taught her about life and dating, and love.
He was with his girlfriend at the time, messing around on her for the now 18 year old girl.
He told her that he cant do it to you especially when he did it before, and she never dated before.
especially if he's been hurt and not yet overcome it completely.
At 18, there'a also going to be no telling her that you know better.
However, someone has mentioned to me that merely being in a "girlfriend-boyfriend" relationship can equally get her in trouble. *edit Aaron, thanks for your opinion on the kissing.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
just as you probably wouldn't want someone to interfere in your own personal matters. She actually has real feelings for my boy, but she is emotionally unstable.