It can look like you have questionable morals, even if you were the perfect wife during your marriage.
This can affect the outcome of your divorce as far as spousal support and the eventual property settlement goes.
Even if you have been separated from your husband for a while, dating during your divorce can be used to help prove marital misconduct during your marriage.
It can also have a big impact on whether or not you will receive alimony and how much you receive.
This can even apply to temporary support order, because once again, you are sharing the expenses with someone else.
You need time to discover that you can make it on your own without a man to support you emotionally or financially. When you are going through a divorce, you're usually not in a mental state to make permanent choices.
Studies have shown that the first relationship that a person enters into after a divorce has little chance of long-term survival and will rarely end in marriage.
Even if your husband has carried on numerous affairs during your marriage, he will not think that you are justified in seeing someone new at this time.
All he will focus on is that he has been wronged and will want to seek justice anyway he can.
You will most likely have ongoing contact with your husband after the divorce because of the children.