So there's a balance to be struck and when you date a cougar based on pictures alone you take a chance. Securing your date with a cougar When you're first talking to your cougar (either online or in the 'real world') it pays to remember that no two cougars are the same.Just like girls in their 20s, cougar women vary enormously in what they are looking for from a man.So go instead to a quiet bar where you can get to know her properly, rather than to a packed out club where you have to shout to be heard.
Play it right and your date with a cougar could turn into a night you'll remember for a long time to come.
Was just on CBS Early Show and had a blast, as usual.
Sure, you see potential cougars everywhere, on the subway, in the supermarket, on the bus, at the mall - but are they really cougars?
Or are they just hot older chicks with angry husbands waiting to kick your ass?
Show that you've got brains as well as youth on your side and you have a much better chance of securing your date with a cougar.
On the other hand, there are a whole bunch of cougars out there who are simply after a good time with a younger guy - a chance to relive their youth and inject some fun back into their lives after 20 years married to a boring old fart.The benefit of online dating is that you get to sound out your cougar for a while first by swapping messages and maybe even photos.You can really get an idea of what your cougar woman is looking for and make sure that if you do go on a date with her, you're likely to be on the same wavelength.For a first date, it's always a safe bet to go for either a drink or a meal.If you choose to date a cougar who you met online and therefore haven't spoken to much (if at all) it's a good idea to take her to a bar for your first date.The drawback of course is that you don't know how realistic the photos of your cougar really are.